tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6985502054131558027.post7071940918800757904..comments2023-04-09T05:49:47.771-07:00Comments on Away We Go: My Substitute For LoveAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17270919217400707704noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6985502054131558027.post-59770400016290950472015-01-17T11:34:03.794-08:002015-01-17T11:34:03.794-08:00A person cannot experience you as you, but they ca...A person cannot experience you as you, but they can get awfully close if you let them. The rarity is finding someone who is pursuing those depths of you with as much fervor as your desire for capture. If I have a relationship with someone, it can be on fire for awhile, and then burn out. <br />If I have a relationship with someone else, it can be on fire in ways that my previous relationship was not. It can endure longer than the fading sunset of the last one. It however too can fade. If I have yet another relationship with someone, it can be deeper than the other two combined, creating an experience of connection and intimacy that blew what I already thought was unimaginable in the past two relationships to whole new levels of out of this world proportions. At that depth there will not be a night that you suddenly awake and feel empty in his arms next to you. At that depth you lose yourself in each other. You are so at home that you no longer matter. <br /><br />You hunger and long for something deeper, something closer, something more fullfilling than what you had previously experienced. This doesn't mean what you had experienced wasn't real or wasn't deep. Several combinations can lead to flames burning out and is another topic all by itself. Sometimes the flames don't burn out at all and people still seek something deeper. We are built and hard-wired to be engulfed and on fire for another person's heart body mind and soul to the most rejuvenating life giving depths of our vessels. When the well goes dry, we experience a season of famine, times moves, and we feel like we are missing out. <br /><br />Escaping to pass times is not necessarily a negative thing. Work as a pass time is okay as long as a balance is maintained. People become unconscious of the tipping scales of that balance. What does man gain by all the toil at which he toils under the sun if he comes home to a quiet room and goes to bed early? Life is not always about what you do or where you go. Maybe right now for you it is. You will find as echoing through out your post here that it really is about who you are with. A table for one gets very tired very quickly. AlwaysTheLovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06759811035553104651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6985502054131558027.post-2131163909515082982015-01-16T18:23:58.574-08:002015-01-16T18:23:58.574-08:00I am also browsing the thougt of Brené Brown, and ...I am also browsing the thougt of Brené Brown, and has been useful to me. I notice you embraced your vulnerability and overcame the shame we sometimes feel not fulfilling the ideal the Superego imposes us. It's fantastic your identification with your authentic self and I hope you might son find meaning in your life and also the fulfillment the love could contribute. Of course the validation has to be found in ourselves, but when happens that somebody casually expresses something about me, it helps me so much. With my best wishes to your happiness.armando bravohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00685431814885837059noreply@blogger.com